Dating female man
Robbie is what you might call a 'nice guy misogynist'. He's nice to his female colleagues, he cherishes his wife and loves his mother and sister.His bias is tricky to spot - he probably doesn't even realise it exists - the outdated views he holds about women, deep down. That by saying he finds his wife's body shape 'sexy' that somehow solves centuries of sexism. As a teenager, I was often teased by my friends for my attraction to girls on the thicker side, ones who were shorter and curvier, girls that the average (basic) bro might refer to as "chubby" or even "fat." Then, as I became a man and started to educate myself on issues such as feminism and how the media marginalizes women by portraying a very narrow and very specific standard of beauty (thin, tall, lean) I realized how many men have bought into that lie.
If she literally can't keep his name out of her mouth for a couple of hours, it makes me feel like she's clearly not over past issues.
showed that in 92.5 percent of opposite-sex couples, the man was taller than the woman.
A guy who can look at all those statistics and societal pressures and say "eff that" is less likely to be threatened by other ways that you buck gender stereotypes — for example, instead of feeling weird about you getting a raise or showing off your superior sports knowledge, he’ll celebrate the fact that he’s with someone who doesn’t make herself smaller to accommodate others.2. guys from 20 to 29 years of age are under 5-foot-10, the average male height, while only about 20 percent of guys exceed the 6-foot mark.
As her best friend, it's understandable that you want what's best for her, but leave his sexuality out of it. It doesn't mean that they're gay; they are naturally more sensitive, understanding and in tune with emotions. And even if you talked with her, it doesn't mean she would listen to you.
If your friend and her boyfriend are thinking about moving in together or talking marriage, ask her why she thinks he's a good fit for her, what qualities she loves about him, if and why he makes her happy, if he respects her, treats her well, etc. Sometimes we have to step back to let people decide what's best for them through experience. Be happy for her, and support her in her relationship.